Wednesday, December 21, 2011

the power of play


we finally figured out what dilly likes. he loves, i mean REALLY loves, any cooking or cleaning toys! i wonder if i had something to do with it, but i've convinced myself i didn't! i purchased a mini-shopping cart for him to go christmas shopping with me (not to be girlie), but to help him navigate through his own world and learn what grown ups do. honestly, it is also to build this special enduring bond i have with him that i feel i've missed while i was away from work. play is something kids love to do anyways and i'm glad i was able to make our christmas shopping experience fun. 


i always encourage "free" play with my boys and limit their television entertainment because i don't believe in leaving a child glued to the television. it's already hard enough being a parent and trying to find balance. lately, our downtime at home have been talking, telling stories, preparing meals and making cookie pop, pillow fight, hide-n-seek, and building legos. 


i love the feeling of being a mom and the challenges it brings. i know there are days where it's difficult - but everything i do, i do for them. they're growing up so fast and sooner or later, they'll get married. when that day comes, you know i'll be crying a river. i'll live in the present and not worry about the future for now. 


on a side note, my doctor doesn't feel that baby batman will arrive until jan 2012. stay tuned.


i love my batman and robin! xoxo. 

Monday, December 19, 2011

uncle stinky dance moves

aiden calls my younger sister, auntie stinky. he jokingly called her 'stinky' when he was two years old while we were in the car and that has been her name since. yes, she smells! JK. well, she's a big girl now and with her new boyfriend, aiden decides to name him "uncle stinky". well, uncle stinky has some crazy dance moves.  here's an episode of aiden doing the "uncle stinky" dance at my parents. he's a goofball. he makes me laugh EVERY single day.


Sunday, December 18, 2011

Sunday Randomness

i never realized how busy life can be on maternity leave and preparing myself mentally and physically for baby batman. in addition, i'm nesting and watching my two boys, sometimes 3 (including husband). at this point, i'm really petrified of going into labor, but excited about meeting my little man that i've been carrying for technically the past 10 months. today, i thought i was going into labor, but my contractions were inconsistent. i hope he arrives after the holiday. i have a jammed pack week starting tomorrow from christmas shopping, doctor's appointments, disneyland, pretend city, discovery science center, and 6 christmas parties ..... yes, i'll be going to ALL.


i hope i make it through this week. my body is getting a tidbit heavy for me. i can't wait to get my body semi-back so  i can play with my boys the way i used to. i love them o' so much! 


i have a grip load of pictures to load and blog about. i'm just behind. sorry! 


xoxo, mama dang

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Wednesday Random Thoughts

I've been out of work for one week as of tomorrow. Life has been dandy. It's a full time job being home. I would be blogging more, but I've consumed the majority of my time taking apart my entire house in sections and watching my boys. I hope to blog more within the next few days. From here on out, it's going to be VERY busy with so many parties to attend! Hope everyone is enjoying the holiday season! I love it! 


Love my boys. XOXO 

Thursday, December 1, 2011

I'm a Free Woman

i love my job and the people i work with, but today officially marks my first day on maternity leave and it feels great. i no longer have to wake up early or make the long commute to work. this morning, i was able to get aiden ready for school, made him his snack, and hung out with dilly. it made me feel like an awesome mom. 

love my boys. xoxo.

Saturday, November 26, 2011

Yo Gabba Gabba Live {Nokia Theater}

pic was taken with papa dang's iphone camera.

i purchase the tickets to go see yo gabba gabba "it's time to dance" live for our family back in May/June timeframe since our little pumpkins are huge fan. i didn't realize how many other kids are into yo gabba gabba until i showed up at the show. it was amazing. the show was very fun for the kids, but to be honest, i really thought it was fun for us, too! however, a & d probably were the calmest in the clan, which is part of their nature. the look on their faces was priceless when they saw the characters. if you know the characters as well as we do, they were brimming with energy (as they should). Rapper Biz Markie came out and impressed all of us with his beat-boxing skills. Kids and parents were going cray cray! 

i love how they came out with lessons for kids to eat their vegetables with "party in my tummy". i mean, i've seen it numerous times on television and to see it live made it more amazing. it was a very inventive way to get kids to eat their vegetables because they're lonely. 

again, we took our boys to the show because they are fans and we wanted to make them feel special. it was a saturday well spent and i would never trade it for anything.




love my boys. xoxo

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Morning Fun at the Park

it was one busy morning. i had to work, make breakfast, do some minor cleaning and laundry, play and watch my boys. yes, just doing my mama duties. i'm so thankful both boys are independent and can feed themselves. i made a deal with them that if they finished quickly we would be heading to the park and they both devour into their breakfast within 15 minutes. aiden wanted me to cook him fried rice and dilly wanted his usual cereal.

after i bathe both boys (yes, they shower twice a day), we headed to the park for some fun. it wasn't difficult being pregnant and taking both boys because both can walk and hold my hands. they can obey and play. if that wasn't the case, we would be stuck at home playing with toys or interactive games together. in our home, we rarely watch television and maybe just an hour a day (or less) - there are certain programs i believe in that promotes media education. i rather have them stimulate their mind through books and playtime for now. (edit: we do have movie nights at home - so we do watch more than an hour a day occasionally)

it was nice hanging out with my little "kings" and being around other moms with their kids too. it makes me miss being home with them during the day when i'm at work. i really wished i had this lifestyle of being a stay-at-home-mom, but we'll see where life takes me. afterwards, we grabbed some yummy ice cream for our tummy. mmhmm!


love my boys. xoxo.

dilly+aiden

dilly willy

aiden

dilly+aiden

aiden

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

A Letter to My Dilly

dilly willy


My handsome little man... why is it so hard to take pictures of you now? you can't stand still unless you're distracted. 

Where do I even begin? I am one month late and shouldn’t have any excuses, but forgive me. I was so busy working on the details of your birthday late at night when you’re sound asleep, plus I work and watch you when I get home. I wobble like a penguin and am the size of a dinosaur carrying your soon-to-be baby brother and always try to do everything, but there are times my body just can’t. Our weekends are always filled with events and I really should have made time. Sorry, baby.

Two years ago when I first met you, I fell in love. Really, I did. You looked exactly like Aiden when you were first born, but I can honestly say that you’re so much different than he is and I love you both equally.

It is you who have taught me every single day to relax and not to be afraid of your fearless way because you’re the biggest risk taker I know. I’m just being a worrywart. I am your mama. But, I do sweat at times.

It is you who will be protecting Aiden and your little brother from any harm. You are not afraid and care so much for people in your own way. No one understands you but Papa and I. You may not show that you’re affectionate, but you do so indirectly and that’s what matters. You have a heart that cares.

It is you who have taught me that love exist in so many different ways and there’s always enough of love around. You do everything for me and will struggle with Aiden to bring me whatever I ask. You’re a carbon copy of me and I didn’t realize this until a few months ago. You never liked anything and love, I mean love to drop everything you’re doing to just clean and cook. What have I done to you?

Everything you do now is always for “mom”. Every time you speak, you always have to say “mom”. I feel like we’re best friends and hopefully it stays this way forever.

I love the way you always negotiate with Papa that you want to be with me. I think he gets jealous at times, but I’m glad you picked me. They always say boys will be Mama’s boys and you definitely fit into that category.

Thank you again for teaching me the true meaning of unconditional love. This is the reason why I love having you, your brother and Papa around. I couldn’t live a day without any of you. You’ve all enriched my life.

Please know that I’ll always be here for you through your path in life. You don’t ever have to worry about getting support because I will always be there with open arms even when you’ve fallen and need to get back up. I will always be helping you along the way. Life isn’t about what you have, but who you have with you.

Please know that Papa and I threw you a wonderful party birthday to celebrate yet another year of your life because you’re so special to us. You only turn 2 once. There were nights I struggled to stay awake and was sleep deprived. I love you that much --- and should have taken better care of myself the last week prepping for your bash, but when I looked at you, I rather struggle with my inner self because I love and care for you more than words can ever express. Everything I do … I do for you.

My love, please dream big. You’ve been a true blessing.

I love you today, tomorrow and forever. Thank you for coming into my life.

XOXO, Mama

Thursday, November 17, 2011

Batman Lovers

It was one of those crazy weekends last month (which I'm finally blogging). We had 3 events in one day. It started off with Jayden’s first birthday, then heading to meet Papa Dang at the finished line as he completed the Grand Fondo (oh, 107 miles!), and rushing home to make it to our BFF’s birthday dinner. It was one rough Saturday, but we made it somehow to all three.
Aiden and Dilly had such a great time at Jayden’s first birthday that I wanted to capture pictures to document their day since Papa Dang was in route to complete the Grand Fondo and couldn’t be there. I was only able to capture the picture on our way back to the car since I’m a dinosaur. I had to tend to both kids and didn’t want to hold such a heavy camera around my neck.  
The birthday party was well-organized and had so many activities for the kids. Of course, we couldn’t leave without getting their face painted with the “batman” logo. I swear, they’ve never watched one episode of “Batman” before, but I guess since Uncle Jack introduced them to the Batman Lego game, they’ve became a huge fan. Aiden would call Dylan “Robin” and tell everyone else, he’s “Batman”.
Anyways, I always carry my camera around with me during the weekends even though there are plenty of technical things I still need to learn. I love putting my camera in front of the moment because moments like the first image I captured are full of emotion and memory. It makes me smile every time I look at this image and look at the bond shared between two brothers. A perfect photo always tells a story. Plus, it’s so important to capture “the” moment because one day these memories (pictures) would soak into the sight of our boys. It would lead them and tell them stories of who they’ve become from their itty bitty diaper days to adulthood. This is what I want to do and will continue to do for our boys.
Love my boys. XOXO.
my cutie pies

my cutie pies

my cutie pies

my cutie pies

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Pumpkin Factory 2011

aiden
aiden

i know. i know. this is way past due. i'm going to be talking about our halloween fun in november, but i was so busy in october. we would see the pumpkin factory from the 405s and there was a batman inflatable jumping house. of course, aiden would ask to go there. he's a huge batman fan. we took both our boys after church one day. dylan spent most of his time running through the pumpkins and picking them up as though he's mr. buff boy. i dont know if papa dang enjoyed the heat, but we all had a blast!

Calling All Superheros - Dylan's 2nd Birthday (Part 3)


Ready for some more details from Dylan’s Birthday Bash? There are tons of amazing vendors out there and hopefully this will be an inspiration to other hostesses who are interested in using some of the ones we’ve used.

Everything came together so well and each vendor we’ve selected was such an important part into making the party a success. As mentioned in one of the previous post, Dylan’s birthday was supposed to be at Zoomar’s Petting Zoo in San Juan Capistrano, but due to the rain, we moved it (literally) last minute to Mon Cheri in Garden Grove (thanks to our good friend). The venue was perfect in every way and had such a modern touch to it. I was only afraid that it was going to be too big since it holds 400 people, but we made it work out where it didn’t make the party look so empty.

Vendor Credits:

Mon Cheri: Thanks a million to our good friend for pulling through to make this happen for us last minute. I am still thankful to this day that the venue was available! It’s a wedding reception venue / special events. If you’re getting married and want to keep it nice/classy, I would recommend coming here.

Instant Party Pix:  I can’t stop thanking our good friends from Instant Party Pix for coming through last minute for us. Their photo booth was such a hit at the birthday bash. IPP produces quality prints and amazing layouts. Did I mention – their prints print fast unlike other photo booth vendors? I highly recommend them for your next event!
poster

Lacy Ink’s Art:  Oh, my caricature artist! We’ve hired her every single year for our boy’s birthday and have collected her caricature posters of our boys with their birthday theme each year. Her pricing is very reasonable and service is fabulous!


poster
Art by Charlene Ngo: Charlene is a true artist full of creativity and is definitely gifted. We hired her for 3-hours to do face painting on the little ones and the line was ridiculously long! She’s my good friend's cousin and I remember going to church when I was younger and always thought that her family was so beautiful in every way. I wasn’t a stalker (OK, maybe a little). Charlene never ceases to amaze me and I’m glad I was able to book her last minute when the event was moved indoors! I have a feeling she’s going to be famous one day with her skills!

Taylor Cake Creation:  Taylor has made several cakes for us and I’m glad she was able to bring our theme to life with her “superhero” cake creation. Her design was fabulous.  She designed a 3-tier cake for our little man with red velvet and chocolate fillings. It was very moist and delectable! For someone with such a big sweet tooth, I was in heaven!


cake

Have a Ball Catering: I was so impressed with Heather’s cake pop at my gf’s daughter’s birthday that I had to book her for Dilly’s bash. She was very accommodating and made a special delivery at no cost to my house.  She had 3 designs: superman and batman logos and spiderman face. It came out great and her cake pop was so yummy! Mhmmmm!


cakepops

Vivian’s Cookies: Our good friend loves to bake cookies and make chocolate dipped pretzel sticks! Thanks for taking the time to make some yummy for our tummy.


cookies


Wiki Wiki Shaved Ice: Van and Sheri are amazing and always come through for us. Sheri kept texting me that day to make sure I was still having the birthday bash. If you ever had Matsumoto Shaved Ice in Hawaii, I would say that their shaved ice is ten times better!


shaved ice

DJ Dan/Triple D/Tdang:  The dynamic triple duos (our good friends / bro) for coming through and playing music during the birthday bash! Thanks a million. I know music is your life.

Stay tuned for Part 4…………

Monday, November 14, 2011

30 years

my family
(A blog is not a blog without pictures. My husband made me a slideshow for my birthday but it's unfinished, however, he found this family picture of us that I thought would be nice to post)

So, I turned the big 3-0 (yes, as it’s invariably called) yesterday and now I finally have the chance to reflect. I feel no different than yesterday; however, I’m welcoming the 30s with open arms. I’ve grown more as a person throughout these past years, but I’m still the same person deep down inside. Again, age is a matter of perspective.

I’ve learned that not everything comes my way and that I’ll take what I’ve been given and make the best of it and have fun. I’ve learned that people are selfish, ignorant and uncaring at times, but there are others people who are selfless and give completely of themselves and time without asking for anything in return.

My 20’s was about self-discovery. After getting married at age 24 to my high school sweetheart, which by the way, was the best decision I’ve ever made, I knew I was ready to start a family. By age 25, I was pregnant with our first son and had him at 26. Aiden was the greatest joy that ever happened and by age 27, I was pregnant again, this time with Dylan and had him at 28. I was faced with challenges of being a mom and learned how to manage the demands of work and family and achieving a “balance” between both aspects of life was hard at one point. By age 29, I did it again. I’m now pregnant with our 3rd son and will be meeting him in 6 weeks. My oven is set to bake again one last time because this is what “we” want and I’m always ready for the challenges that it would bring. Having kids in my mid-20s have tested my character and strength and the parenting skills I’ve accrued thus far has made me more mature and relatively more patient.

The wisdom I’ve possess is a result of the experience and reading I’ve done. But, youth has its way of being frivolity, but in my books, who say that we can’t be forever young! Then again, it’s true. I’ve grown and changed with age.

I remember setting goals and would measure my accomplishment arbitrarily by my age, you know, you’ll say “I want to accomplish this by …” but it should never be like that. It should be about living life to the fullest, giving, loving, and caring to those closest to me. I find them more important.

I’ll keep this short since I could probably write a book about my reflection, but I am content with where life has taken me. I’ve had my up’s and down’s. My greatest joys are my boys and new friendships I’ve developed over these years. I’m excited for this new phase and will live in the present and never in the past. I love my job and the people I work with …….. but most of all, I love being a mom, friend, sister, and wife and will strive to be the best I can be.

P.S. I will always love Britney Spears no matter what age I turn!

XOXO, Mama Dang

Turning the Big 3-0!



i never ask for much and i never have. i never want to celebrate my birthday, but love celebrating others. if you ever ask papa dang what i want, it's always a "card". i love getting mails or having people write to me. last year was probably the only year that i decided to have a birthday party and my husband threw it at the usher concert. but, this year probably top everything thanks to my wonderful sisters, friends, and husband. they threw me a surprise 30th and baby shower combined. then, my parents had a lovely dinner for me and cat helped put together the slideshow above. plus, my in-laws had a nice birthday cake (thanks tdang) for me yesterday!

btw, the slideshow makes me cry every single time i watch it. i guess i'm jackie's favorite sister in "disguise". also, i never take the time to absorb how much i've grown over the years and how much i'm loved. it was nicely captured! thanks a million! 

i'll blog later tonight about hitting my big 3-0! xoxo.

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Calling All Superheros - Dylan's 2nd Birthday (Part 2)

cake table

poster+phonebooth

OK, here’s more of the DIY projects we did for Dylan’s 2nd bash.
Dessert Buildings:
Materials Required: Cardboard Boxes, Spray Paint, Post-It Notes, Double-Sided Tape, Cutting Blade
I always do what I love and that’s planning our son’s birthday parties. I always tell myself that I’m going to keep it simple, but then, I get carried away because I’ve turned their birthday parties into projects that I would never be able to do or showcase without having them. I always get my inspiration from other moms on the net and then put my own flare to it because it brings out the uniqueness.
I couldn’t thank my husband enough. My original plan was to have the buildings made out of wood, but then, I didn’t think about how I would transport the buildings to Zoomars unless I rented a U-Haul truck. We decided to try out boxes even though they were not going to be sturdy to hold our desserts, but we had to figure out how to make it work, which we did in the end. It took Papa Dang about 5 hours to spray paint all the boxes since it required several coats to hide all the wordings that were on the outside. The boxes were purchased at Home Depot for less than $1.50 each and spray paint was approx. $3.75. Each box required at least 4 to 5 spray cans. Once it was completed, he added windows using yellow post-it notes.
Phonebooth:
Materials Required: Closet Box, Ruler, Cutting Blade, Poster Boards, Scissors, Spray Paint, Mailbox Letter Stickers
The phone booth was a must have. I originally sent my sisters to go hunt down refrigerator boxes for me, but mission failed. So, Papa Dang purchased a closet box for $13 dollars. The signs were made by Tank Driver Sissy and Uncle Stinky, which took hours to complete.  It turned out great in the end and you can tell that it’s not difficult to make. If you have a boy, this would be a fun project to do together.
Balloon Arch:
Materials Required: Balloons, Helium Tank, Fishing Line
Thanks to my Tank Driver Sissy who used to be in ASB for her talented skills in making the balloon arch. This was a last minute vision since I knew it was going to be indoors. I needed colors to make the cake/dessert table stand out. Luckily, she made a quick stop at Party City to purchase the materials needed and called up her counter partner, Linda, to make the arch within an hour.
I’m so thankful to those who assisted, but most of all, I couldn’t have done it without Papa Dang. I see him every single day and he never complains. There’s just something amazing about looking at him every single day and knowing he loves me and accepts me for me. He always makes me feel special.
Stay tuned for Part 3.
Love my boys. XOXO.

Monday, November 7, 2011

Calling All Superheros - Dylan's 2nd Birthday (Part 1)

We did it! I don’t know how we managed to pull off Dylan’s 2nd bash, but I can say that I’m pleased it went the way it did. It wasn’t how I envisioned it, but due to the unforeseen weather forecast with mother nature, we were either going to cancel the party or have it go on. And, for Dilly Willy, the party had to go on! For the first time in my life, I tracked the weather hourly since Saturday night, in hopes, that the weather was wrong (like it is sometimes).
Papa Dang and I didn’t have a contingency plan in place in the event it was going to rain. We were just going to cancel. We couldn’t think of where else to host the party that could accommodate our guests (approx. 150 people) until 11:25 a.m. the day of the party. I was down to the buckle when the weather changed from sunny to 70% probability of rain starting at 2 p.m. There was no way I was going to have our guests stand in the cold anyways and just like being at work, I put my thinking cap on quickly. Within 10 minutes of contacting folks I had connections with, the party was moved from Zoomars Petting Zoo to Mon Cheri. It was the best decisions I’ve made!!  I kept our guests updated via e-mail of any changes. Thanks to the ever-so-technological advancement with cell phones – it definitely saved my life since e-mail was accessible to most within minutes. In addition, I didn’t want to toss everything Papa Dang and I worked on so hard away. It took us an entire month to plan and the last week was brutal. We would stay up together working on details (once our boys were sound asleep) to make our vision come to life. I’m so thankful for Papa Dang; he’s very accommodating and normally gives his two cents on my vision, which is sometimes better than what I originally planned.

I designed everything on paper, laid it out in word document / PS, loaded our guest lists to Excel, reviewed vendor contracts and booked them, kept a spreadsheet with vendor information, weekly agenda (to-do list) and expected completion date…. I was very organized and you basically have to be when you’re trying to execute a birthday party to ensure it goes smoothly. Yup, it’s time management.
Ok, let’s get down to the details, which will have to be broken in several posts. Hopefully, this will insipre or help you when you decide to throw a superhero bash of your own. I’m going to start with the DIY (Do-It-Yourself) projects (love doing these) for making superhero capes:
Materials Required – Fabric, Sewing Machine, Velcro, Cape Pattern, Scissor, Pins (Cost per Cape - $1.75)
My original plan was to not make capes and have kids come in their alter-ego superhero costumes, but since I knew that some wouldn’t have any, I had to accommodate them to make them fit in. Kids shouldn’t feel left out (in my opinion). It was basically all or nothing. I was set to make 20 capes, which then turn to 50 capes and for someone who never sew before, this was going to be an interesting and fun task. Thanks to my Crazy Cousin Diane for the pattern and for teaching me the basics of sewing. Also, thanks to Lil Anh for coming over to help cut fabrics and later took some home to sew, but I went “sew-crazy” one night, I basically didn’t need her help. However, she did sew 10 capes for me!  
I decided to invest in a sewing machine from Target for $100 bucks. I remember the first night I brought it home and started practicing in our bedroom while Papa Dang was asleep. It was such a bad idea because he kept waking up to the loud noise that I had to move myself the following day to the dining room. I am funny.
I used cotton fabrics that were purchased from Joanns. Joanns have the coolest deals ever! You don’t ever have to pay full-price for anything. There are always coupons and it is easily available through the web or weekly ads.
I would put together instructions on how to make the cape, but I don’t have pictures to show right now on how it was done. If you want to learn, just ask me and I’ll show you. The capes were not perfect, but good enough to allow kids to run around being little superhero. In the end, I was able to mass produce and it became an addiction. I went “sew-crazy”, people! I would normally sew late at night after our boys were asleep, but there was only one Saturday morning, where I worked on it for 30 minutes and allowed Aiden and Dilly to watch TV. As a result, I let them watch "diego" and Aiden picked up "hola amigo". Haha!
Thanks to our friend, Tony, for the superhero vinyl that were pressed on each cape.

Personalized Name Hangers:
Materials Required: Hangers, 18 or 16 Gauge - 200 ft. Galvanized Wire, Long Nose Pliers, Ribbons (Cost per Hanger $1.00)
Papa Dang showed me a personalized wire hanger name from a wedding he saw on Facebook and I thought to myself, would it not be cool if I could do this for each little superhero? I spent the night doing some research and the following day, I asked Papa Dang to buy me some galvanized wire from Home Depot. We spent a few nights trying to figure out how to twist the names to make it look decent. I would write the name on a piece of paper and then, tried twisting it. I started off with both our boy’s name. Again, another hideous attempt that I dare not to show! I wasted about 100 ft of galvanized wire before I was able to master what turned out to be “OK” looking. I was very close to just putting them on wooden hangers, but I’m very optimistic and continue to teach myself.
After several attempts, my hands got used to twisting the names. I could twist one name in about 3-5 minutes.
I didn’t take pictures of how the hangers were made, but can show you if you’re interested. I taught my friend, Vivian, when she came over to our house one night. If I can do it, so can you! They are very inexpensive to make.
Here’s the breakdown:
Wooden hangers purchased from IKEA (8 for $3.99).
Ribbons purchased at Michaels ($1.00)
18 or 16 Gauge - 200 ft. Galvanized Wire ($6.29)
Long Nose Pliers (every guy owns this – just borrow it – haha).

All of the hangers were made by yours truly, except for one. I couldn't believe I made them. :)

Thanks to Tank Driver Sissy and Uncle Stinky for tying the ribbons on the hangers.
Picture courtesy of Catherine Tang Photography.
superhero capes

superhero capes


maggie


dilly's gf (syd)

Monday, October 31, 2011

my everything

i have unfinished blogs and i'm so behind with posting them because i've been spending my days being a mom and wife, but most of all, i have been trying to plan an exciting birthday bash for my little superhero this sunday. yes, the little man you see below! he's my everything and each birthday, i put my heart into celebrating yet another year of my son's life. 


stay tuned for details and planning that took me exactly one month. xoxo.

boys

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Tanaka Farm Pumpkin Patch

superman dilly+papa

my cutie pies

superman dilly

we took our boys to tanaka farm the weekend before halloween and the field looked so empty. we were supposed to go mid-month, but couldn't due to conflicts with birthday parties or other outings we had to be at. our boys still had a good time and likes running around picking up the pumpkins. it was semi-hot that day and i almost died (yes, a little dramatic). halloween is so fun especially for our boys. we ended up staying for about an hour. our kids wander around the farm, went into the maze, and basically just enjoyed playing with the pumpkins .... good time like always.


love my boys. xoxo.

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Hi

this month has been ridiculously busy for me. i have about 5 blogs that i've started, but haven't finished. i promise to update soon (maybe by this weekend, if time permits). i hope you're doing well and guess what, we get to meet baby batman in 10 weeks! yay! xoxo, mama dang

Thursday, October 6, 2011

a wink of an eye

i can't believe it either. it's my little energizer bunny's birthday month and he's turning two. i've finally started planning and hopefully, his birthday party turns out the way i've envisioned it. here's a picture captured from his boo-fest birthday bash last year except he's not featured and co anh is! this was the only picture i had on my comp. plus, i'm too lazy to waddle downstairs to grab my hard drive to post a few pics. haha. how time flies. 

love my boys. xoxo

boys

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Livestrong Day - Go Yellow!


Today, our family pledged to wear yellow with thousands of others in support of our dear friend, KC, and others who are affected by cancer. We wanted to stand and show our solidarity and offer strength by showing our support. To others especially KC: You are not alone in this fight! We love you!

boys
Do you notice the stick figures of our family? It includes our little growing peanut. I'm so used to drawing it on Aiden's snack bag every day with a little message and thought it would be cool to incorporate this. 

boys
Dilly was supposed to hold the "KC Livestrong" paper, but he crumbled it up and wanted Aiden's paper. Haha


boys

boys

boys

Monday, September 26, 2011

Good Investments - Kumon Workbooks

i've started aiden on kumon books when he turned 2.5 years old to prep him for preschool. i wanted him to be confident and motivated to learn. i always try to make it fun. they do have kumon learning centers, but i opted out and taught him myself. i started off with "my first book of tracing" and continued on with other books. it built such a great foundation in how to hold a pencil and aiden loved everything about it. it was also an incentive that every time he completed his "homework", he would be rewarded and would get to play a certain game he wanted.

Sunday, September 25, 2011

Pumpkin Patch | Irvine Regional Park

Have I mentioned that our family lives for the holiday??  In preparation for Fall and Halloween, we visited our first Pumpkin Patch for 2011 at Irvine Regional Park (highly recommended). We didn’t mind paying the $5 parking fee for a little fun getaway. We love the view and scenery.  Admission to the Pumpkin Patch is free. Prices for activities vary, but they do have a child-friendly haunted house, picture stands, and a hay maze for free, if you’re not looking to spend money. Other activities included panning for gold, riding a hay wagon, carnival games, and pony rides. Sooo fun! I think I’m still a kid at heart and will always be.
Here are the loves of my life.

brotherly love

the haze maze was really fun for our boys. they were running everywhere. of course, dilly followed aiden in hopes of finding the exit. aiden was stoked when he found it and said "i did it!".

brotherly love

aiden

we can never get enough of all the pumpkins we saw.

pumpkins

our not-so-chicken son, dilly, went into the haunted house and wasn't even scared, while aiden declined and kept telling me he's scared of "monsters". we took our boys on the train ride around the park, but before we completed our trip, they had to ride on the pony. they are both obsessed with animals.

for $4 dollars, dilly got to ride on the pony while papa dang walked it. it was really cute. he kept smiling. a smile that melted my heart. they took the pony on 3 laps and then, it was aiden turn.

dilly+pony

dilly+pony

again, for $4 dollars, aiden didn't want the boring pony instead he opted for the horsey that jog trot. it was hilarious. he loved it when it was bouncing up and down. he didn't even want to get off of it. what a daring little man!
aiden+horse

aiden+horse


It was such a pleasant day spent with our boys and spending time together is always healthy. It wasn’t expensive and I hope that they understand one day that what makes a happy family is doing things together. It not only helps with building family strength but the importance of quality time spent together is what they should remember. Maybe, that’s why my life is so busy because I devote most of my time to them.  

Our weekends are always filled with activities, if we don’t have to be at any birthday parties or family event. However, our weekdays are kept simple. We don’t ever watch TV and lately started cuddling together in bed together to read Halloween books that our boys find to be exciting and enticing.  We’ve made it a part of our everyday routine each night before our boys go to sleep. It used to be on the floor in their bedroom, but we just recently changed it.
Love my boys. XOXO.

Saturday, September 24, 2011

H&M presents Baby Loves Disco

We headed to the Block of Orange (it's called the Outlets of Orange now) to check out the Baby Loves Disco event. They had several activities for the kids and the DJ was great. The event was free. Our boys made their free puppet socks and got their balloon swords. Then, we headed home for our afternoon nap. Something I always look forward to, in order to refuel my energy.

Love my boys. XOXO


baby loves disco

baby loves disco

Monday, September 19, 2011

Sweet Love

haircut time

this is what goes on in our home every 2 weeks. i'm glad our boys have their own personal barber aka papa dang. it makes it so much easier and doesn't even cost a dime!

Friday, September 16, 2011

Lion King 3D

lion king
We took our boys to see the Lion King on 3D. This was one of my favorite childhood Disney movies of all-time. We went for the experience with our boys even though we have the regular DVD at home. One, the immersive effect makes you think again plus the outstanding, exquisite animation won me over.  I couldn’t believe the movie made me cry again. I love how it teaches life lessons. It’s definitely a masterpiece drawn by the great music, storyline, and character development.
Aiden enjoyed the entire movie and didn’t want to leave. He asked so many questions and found the Timon and Pumba scenes to be hysterical. It cracked me up when he referred them to “Auntie Stinky”. Auntie Stinky is my goofy younger sister. Yes, that’s the name he calls her because she smells. Just kidding. Dylan was great for not being a TV or movie type of guy. He managed to sit still half the time until he decided to get up and walk. Not too shabby.
I love spending time with my boys even though there are days where they’re running a million miles an hour and I just wished that they would calm down. It’s the sugar, but more so, them being kids. Regardless, we are like peanut butter and jelly. I can’t live my life without them.
Love my boys. XOXO.

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Week 24

week24


i can't believe i've reached another milestone - yes, week 24 of my pregnancy and i'm feeling great.
 
our little peanut is such a night owl.  he's always awake when i'm about to get some shut eyes. i love all the dance moves he has been doing. as you've noticed, i'm getting big, but it's OK. i can't believe i have a little penis growing inside of me. i know that didn't sound so right, but i love everything about pregnancy minus the morning sickness. even with my pregnancy, i still clean DAILY. i can't stand a clutter house. while papa dang and our boys shower, i normally clean.  
 
my daily night routine:

- wash dishes and put them away in cupboard.
- clean toilet and make sure all the toilet seats are down. 
- empty all trash cans around the house.
- vacuum all the bedrooms. 
- double check to see if all the toys were placed back into toy box
- make sure kitchen counter is cleared of all trash.
- place dirty clothes from laundry hamper in bedrooms into another hamper for the following day wash
- get lysol wipes and wipe down counter or anything i see within sight that is dusty
- if our boys messed up our bed after their nightly pillow fights with papa dang, i will have to remake it before i lay back down to sleep. 
- take a shower and clean while i'm in there. 
 
after this is done, i normally prepare aiden's lunch and draw stick figures of our family on his ziplock bag with his snack inside. he always has a little message from me even though he can't read yet. 
 
i've always been this way and will never change. cleaning is part of my life.

tonight, after i finished my routine, we had art time and watched our boys paint for about 15 minutes. then, we called it a night by giving each other hugs and kisses. we have the same routine daily. it really helps because our boys are so used to it and knows when it's bedtime. basically, the moon is out. we pray. they get tucked into bed with their bears (yes, they sleep with their "friends"). the lights get turned off. we close the door. they quietly fall asleep. it's that simple.
 
love my boys. xoxo.
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